The Secret of a Successful Family Life by Maulana Waiduddin Khan - page 65

setting any conditions. They now lead a happy
married life.
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Controlling Anger
A
NGER
IS
THE
major reason for relationships going
sour. Anger stokes a quarrel which then begets
hatred. And hatred eventually leads to evil. In any
relationship, ninety per cent of the trouble starts
due to anger. Anger is a natural phenomenon. The
only solution to anger is to control it.
Anger in itself is not an evil. It is evil when
one fails to control it and it spoils the lives of
others.
Rage is nothing but a temporary provocation,
which is an undesirable reaction. It is like a fire
which flares up for a short duration and then dies
down on its own if it is given no further fuel. If
people realized this, anger would not result in any
serious disharmony.
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