never arise. This ignorance makes them regard
the matter as something of importance, while it is
only relative in nature.
The temperament of every person is different.
This is a natural phenomenon. Differences do not
surface when people are mere acquaintances.
Differences start surfacing only when they start
their lives together. If couples were to accept these
differences as a part of nature, they would learn
to look beyond them and work towards a
meaningful relationship. Most of the problems in
life are due to ignorance. Recognizing one’s own
ignorance and doing something about it will save
one from unnecessary problems.
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An Incident
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DAY
I got a call from a city in India. It was
from a lady who said that her sister and brother-
in-law were on the verge of a divorce due to
irreconcilable differences. And that they were to
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