Woman in Islamic  Shari‘ah
        
        
          9. Dowry
        
        
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          The parents-in-law’s home is a kind of training and
        
        
          testing ground in which the girl must be willing to
        
        
          learn, to adapt and to prove her mettle. She must
        
        
          leave behind her the fairy tale existence of her
        
        
          parent’s home and enter the realms of reality. The
        
        
          bride who does not grasp these imperatives will
        
        
          most likely be a failure both as a wife and as a
        
        
          daughter-in-law. It is the girl who is prepared to
        
        
          look the hard facts of life in the face who will make
        
        
          her marriage a resounding success.