Woman in Islamic  Shari‘ah
        
        
          9. Dowry
        
        
          ~ 213 ~
        
        
          foremost of the Prophet’s Companions, who was
        
        
          married in Medina with as little ceremony as
        
        
          possible, not even thinking it necessary to invite the
        
        
          Prophet or any of the Companions. Imam Ahmad
        
        
          tells of how the Prophet came to know that ‘Abdur
        
        
          Rahman was married: ‘Abdur Rahman ibn ‘Auf
        
        
          came to the Prophet with the scent of saffron upon
        
        
          him, and when the Prophet asked him about this, he
        
        
          said, “I have married.” The Prophet then enquired
        
        
          as to how much dower he had given his bride.
        
        
          “Gold equal in weight to one date stone,” he
        
        
          replied.
        
        
          180
        
        
          178. Al-Haythami,
        
        
          Majma’ az-Zawa’id wa Manba’ al-
        
        
          Fawa’id, Kitab an-Nikah
        
        
          , 4/255.
        
        
          179. Abu Dawud,
        
        
          Sunan, Kitab an-Nikah,
        
        
          2/336.
        
        
          180. Ibid, 2/336.
        
        
          A WRONG CUSTOM
        
        
          In Modern times the Islamic spirit has almost
        
        
          vanished from the responsibilities connected with
        
        
          the arranging and performing of a marriage.
        
        
          Muslims nowadays prefer to follow local custom