Woman Between Islam and Western Society
        
        
          3. Western Woman
        
        
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          honest individualism in a society where only
        
        
          dishonesty brings profit.”
        
        
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          The system of human life is a web of extremely
        
        
          delicate balances and counter-balances, in which
        
        
          even a minor change can wreak havoc. It is no
        
        
          different from the animal, vegetable and mineral
        
        
          kingdoms in which the secret of success lies in never
        
        
          deviating from the pattern laid down by nature.
        
        
          Achieving the desired result is possible only when
        
        
          the established structure of nature is understood and
        
        
          accepted. But the very people who adhere strictly to
        
        
          this precept as regards the world of matter, forget
        
        
          that this is an eternal truth which applies to their
        
        
          own lives too. Nature’s system for men and women
        
        
          takes shape in the institution of marriage. A
        
        
          woman’s physique, psychology, familial urges and
        
        
          social relations all demand that she lead a married —
        
        
          and, therefore, moral — life. This is a pattern which
        
        
          has been laid down for her own good.
        
        
          Being free and independent seems an attractive
        
        
          phrase when applied to a woman, but the practical
        
        
          experience of personal liberty can range from the
        
        
          purely unpleasant to the downright disgusting.