When one starts to think in this manner, it is the
result of conditioning. This happens to almost
everyone.
And so, when a man and a woman come
together in marriage, this type of conditioning
becomes a problem. The woman looks at things
from a different angle from the man. And this can
result in disagreements which can blowup to great
proportions.
The only solution to this problem is to de-
condition one another. This can happen only
when one opens up and engages in intellectual
discussion with the other. And a prerequisite for
deconditioning is that one must be willing to
admit one’s mistakes. Admitting one’s mistakes is
the only successful way to de-condition oneself.
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