4
The Formula of 30 Seconds
A
S
A
MAN
is egoistic by nature, and a woman
emotional, they can often be at loggerheads with
each other due to their differences. This difference
cannot be obliterated. The only solution to this
problem is that, when a man’s ego flares up, the
woman should keep her calm; and when the
woman becomes emotional and loses her temper,
the man must keep likewise calm. They should
not give in to reactions of any kind. This is the
only solution to this situation.
A negative feeling such as anger flares up on
its own. But, in its initial stage, it remains within
a certain limit. And it crosses this limit only when
anger is allowed to intensify. The law of nature
regarding negative feelings is that it gets activated
for only about 30 seconds, and if it is checked, it
gets defused like a balloon. Therefore, if a person
checks his anger, and does not allow it to flare
up, the negative feeling will ebb away naturally,
without there being any negative outcome.
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