Woman Between Islam and Western Society
        
        
          4. The Problems Facing Modern Civilization
        
        
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          Socialist feminism, which takes into account the
        
        
          intrinsic differences between men and women, is
        
        
          the call of the hour, Ms. Lerman believes. We have
        
        
          had an excess of the American dream — of a
        
        
          husband who works, a house in the suburbs, two
        
        
          children, two cars and a mother who stays at home
        
        
          and bakes cookies. With the family structure falling
        
        
          apart, she feels that only government support in the
        
        
          form of day-care centers, maternity leave benefits
        
        
          and subsidies to override the economic limitations
        
        
          of single women can hold the social fabric together.
        
        
          “Otherwise, our victories will be merely Pyrrhic
        
        
          victories,”
        
        
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          she predicts, similar, perhaps to the
        
        
          freedom experienced on the funeral pyre.’
        
        
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          The feminist leader has acknowledged that the
        
        
          successes of feminism are little short of Pyrrhic
        
        
          victories. This is the most appropriate word to
        
        
          describe the victory of modem woman. She secured
        
        
          “equality” after a long and hard struggle. In the
        
        
          process, however, of achieving this imaginary
        
        
          equality, she has lost everything. Ms. Lerman feels
        
        
          that only large-scale government support can
        
        
          compensate for the deprivation of western women.
        
        
          This means placing herself under the guardianship