The Moral Vision
        
        
          Seeking the Right Alternatives
        
        
          ~ 246 ~
        
        
          when they fail initially to grasp an opportunity and
        
        
          frequently adopt such a pessimistic attitude that
        
        
          they fritter away their precious energies in blaming
        
        
          others for their failures. How much better it would
        
        
          be if they were to make a proper assessment of the
        
        
          situation, taking all possibilities into account, and
        
        
          then seek new ways and means of achieving their
        
        
          goals, even if it means a lengthy wait. This is a
        
        
          matter simply of patience and determination. There
        
        
          is always that “next train” for them to catch. It is
        
        
          just a question of being properly alert to this, and
        
        
          being ready to avail of that God-given second
        
        
          opportunity.
        
        
          If, in any given situation, someone with whom you
        
        
          have business or personal relations turns hostile,
        
        
          pursuing a policy of open confrontation seldom
        
        
          reaps rewards. It is almost invariably more politic to
        
        
          extend courtesy, love and sympathy. That is the
        
        
          way to a person’s heart. It is only by pursuing such
        
        
          a course that a formidable foe may be transformed
        
        
          into a faithful friend.
        
        
          Suppose you work in an office and, for reasons
        
        
          which you fail to comprehend, you are dismissed.