Woman Between Islam and Western Society
        
        
          6. The Rights of Husband and Wife
        
        
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          resemblance between human beings and animals,
        
        
          but, from the moral standpoint, man is in a class by
        
        
          himself, animals knowing none of the self-imposed,
        
        
          ethical constraints which govern human lives. It is
        
        
          this ethical sense in man and other civilizational
        
        
          demands which require members of the opposite
        
        
          sex to refrain from establishing free sexual relations.
        
        
          The natural urge to procreate must, according to the
        
        
          shari’ah,
        
        
          be confined within the bonds of wedlock.
        
        
          Men and women are enjoined by the
        
        
          shari’ah
        
        
          to
        
        
          marry (barring certain close relations) and to lead a
        
        
          family life. The Qur’an says:
        
        
          Except for these (prohibited) all others are
        
        
          lawful, provided you seek (them in marriage)
        
        
          with gifts from your property, desiring
        
        
          chastity not lust.
        
        
          4
        
        
          Sexual attraction between men and women is the
        
        
          result of a natural biological urge. It was to give this
        
        
          relationship legal sanction that the institution of
        
        
          marriage
        
        
          (nikah)
        
        
          was established.
        
        
          Human
        
        
          psychology, biological realities and social
        
        
          considerations all demand that sexual relationships
        
        
          between men and women should be regularized