Woman Between Islam and Western Society
        
        
          4. The Problems Facing Modern Civilization
        
        
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          THE PROBLEM OF MODERN WOMEN
        
        
          A tourist on a visit to America was once sitting in a
        
        
          club during a dance, when he was suddenly
        
        
          approached by an American girl who said to him,
        
        
          quite sadly, “Mr. Tourist, don’t I have any
        
        
          glamour?” ‘‘Why, of course you do, replied the
        
        
          tourist. “Then why don’t the boys date me?” the girl
        
        
          asked.
        
        
          “Dating” in western countries refers to the social
        
        
          custom of boys inviting girls to go out
        
        
          somewhere with them. In this way, boys and girls
        
        
          become acquainted with each other before
        
        
          marriage. This practice has become so common in
        
        
          western life that a girl who is not “dated” by one
        
        
          or more boys begins to feel herself of inferior
        
        
          value on the marriage market. In former times,
        
        
          dating, as a system of courtship, was confined to
        
        
          meetings during which conversation could take
        
        
          place. But then morals became so lax that such
        
        
          meetings became occasions for sexual intimacy.
        
        
          The most recent development is to “date” a girl
        
        
          and then forcibly have sex with her — in fact,
        
        
          rape her.