The Moral Vision
There is Always a Way
~ 272 ~
Similarly, when we find ourselves in difficult
situations, we should study them carefully, in the
way that the jeweller studies his diamond. We
should not approach them, carelessly, from the
strongest point, but with circumspection, from the
weakest. We should not adopt methods which are
likely to gain poor results, like aggessiveness or
violence, for these only engender bitterness and
obstinacy in others. We should resort to politeness
and diplomacy eschew harsh language in favour of
gentleness and tact.
We should consider also that there are certain human
beings who are known as “rough diamonds.” That is,
on the outside they appear to be unattractive and
without merit, whereas on the inside they are of great
worth. To bring out their worth, so that their true
value is apparent to society, it is pointless scratching
at the surface or using acid. If the upright human soul
is to be revealed in all its beauty it must be given the
same delicate handling and treated with the same
expertise as the master craftsman lavishes on a
superb but fragile piece of jewelry.