100 Moral Stories                                                22                                      
        
        
        
          A group of frogs were hopping contentedly through the woods, going about their froggy business,
        
        
          when two of them fell into a deep pit. All of the other frogs gathered around the pit to see what
        
        
          could be done to help their companions. When they saw how deep the pit was, the rest of the
        
        
          dismayed group agreed that it was hopeless and told the two frogs in the pit that they should
        
        
          prepare themselves for their fate, because they were as good as dead.
        
        
          Unwilling to accept this terrible fate, the two frogs began to jump with all of their might. Some of
        
        
          the frogs shouted into the pit that it was hopeless, and that the two frogs wouldn’t be in that
        
        
          situation if they had been more careful, more obedient to the froggy rules, and more responsible.
        
        
          The other frogs continued sorrowfully shouting that they should save their energy and give up,
        
        
          since they were already as good as dead. The two frogs continued jumping as hard as they could,
        
        
          and after several hours of desperate effort were quite weary.
        
        
          Finally, one of the frogs took heed to the calls of his fellows. Spent and disheartened, he quietly
        
        
          resolved himself to his fate, lay down at the bottom of the pit, and died as the others looked on in
        
        
          helpless grief. The other frog continued to jump with every ounce of energy he had, although his
        
        
          body was wracked with pain and he was completely exhausted.
        
        
          His companions began a new, yelling for him to accept his fate, stop the pain and just die.
        
        
          The weary frog jumped harder and harder and - wonder of wonders! Finally leapt so high that he
        
        
          sprang from the pit. Amazed, the other frogs celebrated his
        
        
          miraculous freedom and then gathering around him asked,
        
        
          “Why did you continue jumping when we told you it was
        
        
          impossible?” Reading their lips, the astonished frog
        
        
          explained to them that he was deaf, and that when he saw
        
        
          their gestures and shouting, he thought they were cheering
        
        
          him on. What he had perceived as encouragement inspired
        
        
          him to try harder and to succeed against all odds.
        
        
          This simple story contains a powerful lesson. Your encouraging words can lift someone up and help
        
        
          him or her make it through the day. Your destructive words can cause deep wounds; they may be
        
        
          the weapons that destroy someone’s desire to continue trying - or even their life. Your destructive,
        
        
          careless word can diminish someone in the eyes of others, destroy their influence and have a lasting
        
        
          impact on the way others respond to them.
        
        
          WEAKNESS OR STRENGTH?
        
        
          Sometimes your biggest weakness can become your biggest strength. Take, for example, the story of
        
        
          one 10-year-old boy who decided to study Judo despite the fact that he
        
        
          had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.
        
        
          The boy began lessons with an old Japanese Judo Master Sensei.
        
        
          The boy was doing well, so he couldn’t understand why, after three
        
        
          months of training the master had taught him only one move.
        
        
          “Sensei,” the boy finally said, “Shouldn’t I be learning more moves?”
        
        
          A LESSON FROM A FROG TALE